How do you help when you do not know how?
Why do you not know when information is ample at places you know they would be lying about?
When do you ever try passing by those places?
What if you help when you do not properly know how?
Who do you blame when you try to help but things gets worse?

Most people do not think about these matters, but only try to help while wearing their own shoes only.
People try to unite and stick together, but they never try wearing each others' shoes. At least one of them won't.
No matter how close people get, the decision on the shoes will result in either keeping people apart or bringing people closer.

Have you tried anybody else's shoes?

I have. I try them on all the time.
so much of the time that I can't tell if my shoes have been tried on and placed back the same exact spot, or they have been left untouched.
Will you ever try mine properly?

It was the reason for you, don't let this sole reason be of no use; the choice based on one reasoning, and that reasoning is feared to be non-existent.