The fact is this: Whatever you say, if your actions shows otherwise, tell me how am I supposed to trust you?
If this is what you say, then why these actions?
Actions speak louder than words.
Remember.

We all wish people would wear and walk in our shoes.
And if they realized what's wrong with the shoe, help us fix it.
But who helps us?
Most will just criticize our shoes, some wouldn't even wear our shoes at all.